Who Is Tifany Jones

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2009-05-05T10:18:00.002-04:00

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So Who Is Tifany Jones

2009-04-02T20:33:00.001-04:00

Find out on by reading my interview on Urban Christian Fiction Today today. Here's the permalink. Please share with others.

http://www.urbanchristianfictiontoday.com/2009/03/black-book-clubs-rock-awards.html

Thanks!

octo-mom and other stuff i wonder about!

2009-02-19T11:22:00.002-05:00

i just finished reading an article about the mother who recently gave birth to 8 children. all this AFTER already having six children at home. is anyone else scratching their head? the thing that puzzles me is now her home is going into foreclosure, but in the midst of it she was able to secure a publicist. they later dropped her, but still... are her priorities in order?

chris brown... what was he thinking? i won't say much because i am still waiting for all the details, but does anyone find it a coincidence that he watched his mother get abused and he ended up becoming what he hated. generational curses... lord please give us the wisdom on how to help our children!!

Put A Ring On It

2009-02-04T00:28:00.013-05:00

"If you like it then you shoulda put a ring on it. Don't be mad once you see that he want it..."

We've all heard the Ring On It song by Beyonce. It has an annoying but catchy hook, and an eye popping video, but just like sex the effect will soon fade away. Pretty soon this song will fall into the category of just another female anthem that no one really cares for anymore. Is that how you want to be remembered?

Let’s face it sex is good. God created it as a way for man and woman to become one. We are supposed to enjoy it, but as husband and wife! The reality is sex is not an all day event like it is depicted in movies and magazines. Cosmo may have a juicy article on 101 Ways To Please Your Man In Bed, but what happens after you get up? What do you do about the lifetime soul tie you created with this man by allowing him to give you only minutes of pleasure? Or the virginity you can never get back like that same man who discarded you after you gave him some? Newsflash, you are worth so much more than a fleeting orgasm (if you’ve ever had one)!

Look at sex from a different perspective, one not tainted with millions of TV ads or sexually explicit song lyrics and videos,and you will see sex for what it is; a temporary enjoyment that can cause a lifetime of pain.

We’ve all done things we are not proud of, but God’s mercies renew every morning. God loves you. He’s interested in your wellbeing, your mind, and what troubles you at night. Simply put He cares because you are like a precious jewel to Him. He will not take advantage of you or manipulate you into doing something that will hurt you. He said you are precious in His sight, and it isn’t based on how much skin you show or how well you can work it.

See yourself with 20/20 vision today and learn a little about who you really are here. I agree with Beyonce, Single Ladies make him put a ring on it, but BEFORE not after you’ve given yourself away.

5 Reasons Why You Are Worth The Wait

1. You’re worth the perfect will of God for your life. God never intended for us to treat sex like a test drive before we get the wedding ring. His will for us to remain virgins until the day we’ve become married to the one person we love. It may seem like a fairytale, especially now in a world so consumed with lustful and selfish desires, but the principal works. It is designed to give you a hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11).

2. You’re worth happiness. Premarital sex comes with many strings attached like depression, regret, anger, and even suicide. Don’t put yourself in a position you are not mentally prepared to handle. Your worth is not determined by the number of men you sleep with, but from knowing who you are (Proverbs 3:13).

3. You’re worth being disease free. Sex is a powerful force. It can create life, but if not taken seriously it can destroy yours. HIV/AIDS is real and the leading cause of death for black women between the ages of 18-34. If someone gave you a box and said, “Inside is an incurable disease that will rob your future and strip you of all dignity by isolating you from society,” would you open it? Consider that next time you are approached to “have a good time” (Psalm 103:2-4)

4. You’re worth being a wife, not a baby mama. However cruel, society inappropriately judges women who have had illegitimate children. They regard them as second class citizens, loose, and without morals. Though this is far from the truth, especially since #1 she did not make that baby alone and #2, everyone falls into sin, just some are seen more than others, why put yourself in this position? Having a child is a very important part of life. Share it with the man you’ve committed yourself to in marriage. Skip the drama and just wait (Psalm 31:10).

5. You’re worth true love. Don’t make the mistake and confuse love with lust. Lust is temporary but love is eternal. Love is also longsuffering, does not envy, love does not parade itself… read more. (1 Corinthians 13:4-13)

What is your idea of love? Are you worth the wait? Share your thoughts with us!

Giving Myself Away

2009-02-04T00:21:00.004-05:00

This information was given out during our Virtuous Women meeting on Monday. Take a look and blog your days with me.

February is considered the month of love, but instead of being consumed with what someone else will do for you, do something for someone else. Review the list. Unless otherwise stated, do these things on a daily basis for one month. Before you begin this list make sure you have a journal. Use it to jot down your progress. We will share our progress at our next meeting.

1. Cover a child in prayer every day. We all know a child who is need of our effectual prayers. Sincerely seek God for the wellbeing and salvation of this child.

2. Early morning prayer. What time do you normally get up? Wake up earlier, like 5am, and fellowship with God. Rise up early at least once a week. Meditate on the Word, take a bath while listening to your favorite inspirational music, ect. Don’t just wake up early and stay in the bed. Get up!

3. Make a purposeful attempt to walk in two fruits of the Spirit daily. Read Gal 5:22-23. Don’t be easily moved. Stick to it and watch how your situations will change.

4. Dedicate a weekend to have God like activities. Instead of going out to the movies or watching secular TV, devote your time to things centered around God. Read a good Christian Fiction book, read your bible, pray, have a family conversation centered around God, ect. There is plenty to do.

5. Help clean someone’s house or room. You know that girlfriend you talk about cause her housekeeping skills aren’t that great. Help her!

6. Make your favorite dish and share it with someone. It does not have to be someone you know. Use it as a way to introduce yourself to a neighbor or to get to know your co-workers better. If you can’t cook buy your favorite meal and share it!

7. Send an encouraging email to someone. Sometimes our days can be filled with so much negativity. Use the Word of God to bring light to someone’s situation. Sidebar: Don’t send those spam messages that end with, “If you don’t send this to 20 people you will not be blessed.” If you like what the message says just delete that part off.

8. Find a total stranger and tell them how much God loves them. It is amazing how we strike up conversations with strangers on a daily basis. Use this as an opportunity to share the love of God.

9. Win at least one person to Christ. We all know someone that needs Jesus. Instead of saying it as we shake out head at the sin in their life, go to them and tell them about salvation. Share your testimony. Everyone is looking for something to fill that void. Tell them the one person is able to do it, Jesus!

10. Fast at least once a week. It’s funny how when we are overwhelmed with the issues of life we use food as our comforter. Instead, decide to skip a meal or not eat sweets. Whatever your vice is, eliminate it and use that time to pray and read the Word. Only God can give you the answers you need.

11. Find something you no longer need/want and give it to someone. Whatever it is make sure it is gently used. You wouldn’t want to receive trash so don’t give it.

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the black book clubs rock awards

2009-01-05T02:25:00.002-05:00

tifany reloaded

2008-12-31T00:36:00.002-05:00

wow! has it really been this long since i updated this blog? i guess the facts don't lie!

so much has happened since i last "looked" at this blog. i bet you are wondering what. well, sistah confessions is an actual LIVE book club. i even created a its website. www.sistahconfessions.com. i've also received 2 awards at the close of the year for Top 10 Book Club and Best Blogger. i snapped a picture with my favorite singer canton jones. my family is blessed. life is good, but i thought this even when it didnt seem that way.

personally, i have been through a few things, but nothing God had not already seen coming. let's just say those new mercies that renew everyday have kept me going. i am at a point right now in my life where i finally see i have nothing to lose by going after my dreams, but everything to lose if i sit and do nothing.

tifany (yes, i am referring to myself in the third person) is looking forward to 2009. i already know this will be my break out year and it begins january 2, 2009 with my audition. now i bet you're wondering for what? i will let you know, i promise.

in the mean time, use the light on the inside of you to light up the darkness! the world is waiting on you!

p.s. new website coming soon. so take your last peek at the old www.tifanyjones.com. who knows, i might even change the domain name as well!

i think i hate my life

2008-10-03T07:47:00.002-04:00

it is so easy for the enemy to come in and make you think everything you put your time and effort in for God is a waste of time. i will admit, i felt that way for a hot minute last night when my plans to attend the pen of the writer conference was, how can i say it and still stay saved, abruptly disrupted! i still cant believe it. problems kept coming from left to right, but each time i had a solution.

my car needed work, i got a free rental. it wont be ready until after i was scheduled to leave, i got them to authorize me for unlimited miles. i needed to book a hotel room, my friend had a surprise to tell me i didnt need one. i was rolling. then one hit me i had no solution for. it's called the "i cant get off work" problem courtesy of that wonderful husband of mine. WHAT THE... please dont tell me this the day before my departure. thats like getting on a plane only to have them say "im sorry maam, you are on the wrong flight and btw the one you should be on has already left". what do you do then? i guess there is something to be said about the best laid plans.

now, i am here on this computer instead of on my way to ohio a tad bit upset. i think i let the sun go down on my wrath last night. i better repent and not do it again. what time does the sun set today :)

did i mention i was really looking forward to this conference? oh well, (insert sighing emoticon here).

a hell of a week

2008-09-27T07:43:00.002-04:00

this past week has been a very trying time for me. my family and i have experienced some things i thought would never come our way. i will be the first to admit it has been HARD, but i know God will use these tough times that create friction to reveal the diamond inside of me. the process can sometimes be gritty, but even in the world they say "no pain no gain". im trying to gain souls to the kingdom of God. i wont stop...

with all that said, i've still been surrounded by favor. recent events, like my inclusion in the forth coming novel Bended Knees, due to release 2009, and the wonderful opportunity i've been given to interview authors at the Congressional Black Caucus have just blown my mind. i don't take things like this for granted and if you knew who i had the privledge to speak with and gain wisdom from on a level so much higher than mine, your mouth would be on the floor. literally!!

pictures, video, and audio to come soon.

the book formally known as

2008-09-25T08:05:00.000-04:00

so, you know how prince changed his name a few times? well my book, formally know as since you went away from me, has been changed. the new title is the secrets within.

now a little trivia (cause you never know when you might need useless information). the original title was named after a bar in maxwell's (my mom will cut you if you say anything bad about her "man". please help her jesus!)song lonely's the only company pt 1 + 2. so what went away from the characters in my book, LOVE. now you all know just in case i get my own category on jeopardy :)

you have not...

2008-09-15T08:01:00.000-04:00

on the advice of my publicist, i've asked a very highly regarded author to provide the forward to my forthcoming novel (though kind of scared). i've sent it off and now the fun part... The wait! so far so good though. she has enjoyed what she has read so far. updates on that soon!

the open door

2008-09-12T07:41:00.000-04:00

tifany jones is now the graphic designer for EDC Creations and the Black Authors Network founded by Ella Curry. can we say WOW!!

the impact of sexual abuse

2008-09-11T07:08:00.002-04:00

my interview with barbara grovner, author of Even Numbers

a tifany exclusive...

2008-09-02T10:42:00.003-04:00

check out my interview i had with ella curry of ban network last night. it was different being on the other end of the mic, but i had a blast. listen to the archive and tell me what you think. the response so far about my novel, since you went away from me, has been wonderful. reading party to come soon. will keep you posted!

A Labor of Love

2008-08-22T11:55:00.000-04:00

Hello Everyone,

I've had a blast interviewing various authors throughout the year on the Sistah Confessions Radio Show. The shows have been interesting to say the least and very informative.

Most of the authors are new to the lit world. Many are self published. Now on to the news...

I was contacted by a publisher concerning Vonda Howard, an author recently featured on my show. He wants to get in contact with her regarding an anthology. Can we all say CONGRATULATIONS! This is such good news and I am excited.

I started Sistah Confessions as a way for authors to showcase their work and gather interests from reader, publishers, and the like. God is truly good. So if you are an author, keep writing and networking. It only takes connecting with one person to help you reach your dreams!!

P.S. I thank all the radio show hosts that spend countless hours preparing shows, blogs, newsletters and the like for these authors. You are so appreciated and remember what door you open for others God will also open for you. Your labor is not in vain!

Tifany Jones
Founder and Radio Show Host
Sistah Confessions Radio Show
www. blogtalkradio. com/sistahconfessions

Will the Real Women of God Please Stand Up!

2008-08-14T09:48:00.001-04:00

This is so off topic, but the burning on the inside of me has to let it out...

On my way to work this morning I thought about my position in this world. For so long I've wanted what most of us want and that's to be seen. We all want some type of recognition, because it's a form of acceptance, but when we do things through on our own accord there is no power behind it.

Where is the power in our women today? Some of us think it is between our legs or the ability to turn heads when we walk in a room, but what happens after that? When the beauty fades or the next young thang comes walking up in the club that used to be your stomping ground? What happens then?

As a woman, I know the power that lies on the inside of you. We are creatures of great influence, but are we using it for His glory or our own? Ladies, this world is hurting. There are children out here looking for us to stand for what matter most and that is God. I know somedays it seems like He is not there, but He is. The relationship we need to have with Him is always there waiting for us to turn on our faith to receive it. It's like a light switch. Even when the light is off there is still power running through those wires.

Even when you are off, thinking its all about you, there is still power running through the inside of you just waiting for the moment for you to turn it on.

Where are the real women of God? I need you. This world need you. Our children need you. Please stand, and if you get knocked down along the way, please take your rightful position and STAND again. Storms will come, but they are designed to build resistance and make you stronger.

Will you stand with me?

what it do

2008-07-22T13:56:00.002-04:00

i've noticed a pattern... i don't blog that much! at first, i was worried. maybe i just don't have anything worth while to say, but then i remembered the advice i gave my bff concerning the almost dreaded BLOG. this is just an account of who i am and what i happen to be doing at any given time. a record of my life so to speak, even if it has monthly gaps in it, cause to be honest, my life sometimes feels that way!

so, if you are suffering from DBS (dreaded blog syndrome) just remember this is YOUR life, YOUR blog. write when you can, what you can, and put the BEST of your energy into your craft.

to whom much is given

2008-06-26T07:56:00.001-04:00

i started this blog with the full intent to update readers on my process of becoming a published writer, but the word of God thats like fire shut up in my bones wont let me stop talking about what influences and inspires me.

if you have not noticed, the war is on. God has called us to lift up this hurting generation. to give light to this world but what are you doing with the gifts and the call God has on your life? are you using your talents to further advance you or the kingdom?

people, we have to reach higher than we ever have before. i know its hard with everything rising but your paycheck, but remember God said to whom much is giving much is required. what is required of you? activate you faith to release it. someone is waiting on you to full fill the call you have on your life.

what do you perceive?

2008-06-24T11:59:00.002-04:00

God came at me the other day with a powerful word in proverbs 31. i think every woman in the world is familiar with the proverbs 31 woman, but there was one scripture that stuck out to me. proverbs 31:18 She perceives that her merchandise is good, and her lamp does not go out by night.

what do you see when you look at yourself in the mirror?

to be honest, i still struggle with being a valuable woman in God's site and my own. you see, life had me to believe that i was of no value unless i involved myself with certain things or certain people. i am wise enough to know it's all a lie to keep me bound, but like i said, it's still a fight. however, like the woman in proverbs 31 i will not let me light go out at night. i will continue to shine with the life God has placed on the inside at me.

time for a quickie

2008-06-16T20:50:00.004-04:00

just a quick update on my progess. the book is near completion. i must admit all the feedback i have recieved is compelling me to move. being stagnant is no longer an option. i know God has given me something to share with the world. even if it reaches one life, to God be the glory.

i can't help but be reminded of 1 corinthians 3:5-7, and i have to share it. 5 Who then is Paul, and who is Apollos, but ministers through whom you believed, as the Lord gave to each one? 6 I planted, Apollos watered, but God gave the increase. 7 So then neither he who plants is anything, nor he who waters, but God who gives the increase.

whether we plant or water people with the word (love) of God is irrelevant. in the end God gets the increase. sometimes i feel my words or works are of non-effect but that is just a trick to cause me to focus more on self than on others. this world is hurting. they want answers. they need love. share the light that is inside you and together we can light up the darkness!

sophia is a hit!

2008-06-11T13:46:00.002-04:00

i introduced sophia to the world, and what a reception! all the feedback has been wonderful. one person even commented and said they could already tell i had something wonderful to offer to the lit world. you just don't know how much this means to me. if you haven't met sophia childs, the main character in my forthcoming novel Since You Went Away From Me, check this out!

after my rant and some much needed prayer i have seen God move so much on my behalf in just a matter days. i've been invited to an author appreciation dinner, queried about a project from my web design service for authors Zoe Lifestyle Services, and Sistah Confessions has been contacted by a number of new authors whose work will go great with its new format. all i can say is praise god!

storms and trials will come, but on the other end is the sunshine!

have you met sophia childs?

2008-06-10T06:16:00.004-04:00

after my much needed rambling session yesterday, i went to work. i did not get much writing done, but i was able to update my website and introduce my readers to sophia. who is she you ask? well, sophia childs is the main character in my forthcoming novel Since You Went Away from Me. get to know her and tell me what you think.

Sophia's world is perfect. She is happily married to the highest ranked quarterback in the NFL. Anything she wants is just an American Express card away.
She has everything a woman could want or does she? A sudden trip to the ER has her reevaluate that question, but what she learns is more shocking than the diagnosis…

MEET SOPHIA

who is tifany jones?

2008-06-08T20:37:00.003-04:00

wow! i guess being a consistent blogger is out of the question. i had plans to update my blog at least once a week, but life happened and well here i am. this move has been a very challenging experience for me. not only did my writing take a hiatus, but so did my show. i tried to pull it out on my own strength, but it wasn't enough. did some things suffer? of course they did, but i am happy to announce that i am now settled in a house with Internet access. my entire world revolves around being connected and not having access readily available took its toll on my work.

but enough about my past trials. let's speed things up to now. i hate to admit it but i am feeling a bit down. my dilemma? having something sitting on the inside of me that i just can't seem to get out. no one really knows how i feel. i've tried to explain but its like speaking spanish to someone who only understands english. the message will never get across. now i understand why some writers say they wanted to quit. writing is hard work. especially, when you have no one to really share your world with. i speak to authors each week, but most of it is superficial. they have a product that needs exposure, and i provide it. does the conversation extended past the 30 minute segment? in most instances it does not. what about family and friends? sure i have their support, but it's the kind that's limited to how much time they have to get involved. everyone is trying to live their own life. who am i to intrude on that with my dreams?

so today if someone asked who is tifany jones? i guess i would say she is a woman still trying to find her place in this world. by no means would i ever give up, but i'd be lying if i said the thought never crossed my mind.

ideas for days

2008-04-07T08:40:00.001-04:00

since my relocation i have had new book ideas hit me left and right. i guess that is a good thing. i just need to get them down on paper or my voice recorder.:) the move is taking its toll but the fight builds character. and who knows... maybe this this experience will help one of my characters. oh yeah, i am still in the process of tweaking my first novel. i think i might test the waters with another exclusive rode peek. keep your eyes open.

a change gonna come

2008-04-01T01:06:00.004-04:00

first of all it is 1am. need i really say more? i have 2 appointments tomorrow and it looks like i won't be getting any sleep. my mind is doing its own thang by worrying about tomorrow or the rest of my life for that matter. but really, what can i do? i know i should be anxious for nothing but in all things, with prayer and supplication ,make my request known unto the Lord. still, sometimes its easier said than done. that's the struggle, but it can't rain all the time!

personally, there is a lot going on in my life right now. things are changing as i type this. i just have to believe that it is all for my good and it will work out. once i get through these times i know i will have a testimony to show the love and favor of God on my life.

triumphant

2008-03-21T22:06:00.002-04:00

there are no words to describe how i feel right now. i just received some of the best news! for those that have been following my blog they know i submitted my first short story for an anthology, and guess what? I GOT IN! thank you Jesus. i am so thrilled. for any writer this is a big thing. to know that your work was received is a wonderful feeling. the book won't be released until next year, but i will keep you all posted. when i am able to release information, i will.

HALLELUJAH!

man problems

2008-03-20T02:33:00.001-04:00

i just finished reading so you call yourself a man by carl weber. it was suggested by a member of my book club. i did not particularly enjoy the book but i will admit the twist got me. all i can say without giving out too much is brent's wife was a better woman than me. anyway i am so bored and uncomfortable in this hotel room. I cant wait til next week.:)

school daze

2008-03-18T09:09:00.000-04:00

I was appraoched by the Writers and Lovers Book Club at Central State University in Ohio to help hold a discussion about the racial hatred going on at the campus, but it's not between black and white... It's between light and dark. Tune in on a special day and time as we discuss what's really going down on black campuses across the nation and is our black really beautiful?

what's going on?

2008-03-17T12:31:00.002-04:00

i am in the process of moving. i am overjoyed to be finally getting out of here. i can't say it was all bad. i know God let us learn a few lessons in this wilderness, so i am thankful for that.

as for my writings, well like i already mentioned, i sent my first short story off a couple of weeks ago. i have been corresponding with the publisher. she is a wonderful woman. she said she skimmed it over, thought it had something, and once she sits down to read it she will send it off to her senior editor. 2 months was the turn around time listed on the site, so at the most i have to wait for a response until may. anxious is what i am feeling about that.

somewhere in my hectic schedule i have also come up with the first chapter of another story line. i'm telling you, i have about four books in my head. i just have to get them down on paper. i'll run it by a couple of friends and see what they think, but i am really excited about it.

my first novel is still being tweaked. some of the storyline has changed so i have to go through and make sure it flows smoothly. that's my baby. i think it is going to be like a breath of fresh air for the literary world once it is done.

the powder room... let's just say i have not pulled my hair out yet. i want it to make a debut for spring. how many more weeks do i have left??

OK. i got all that out. now back to packing these boxes.

if it ain't one thing

2008-03-13T22:48:00.003-04:00

i finally decided to go ahead and have the very first book i wrote printed. i set everythng up just the way i wanted it, pdf file is looking good., but just when i thought it was finished... it tells me i have to embed the different fonts i used.

i'm tired of staring at this computer screen. i dont feel like downloading this to configure that, then upload my file to try it again. I"M TIRED! i have so much on my plate now it is not even funny. not to mention the isolation with writing.

ignore me. i am just having one of those moments. it will get better. it always does.

i'm like what...

2008-03-13T08:33:00.002-04:00

alright i am used to things not going my way, but i mean, what? some people. regardless of what you do for them, still don't appreciate it. what they fail to realize is everyone had to start from some where. you never discount someone based on what you see NOW cause everything is subject to change. you don't know who you are speaking to. for all you know that same person you dismissed will be the same one to open up doors for you later.

don't get me wrong, i am loving what do. people i never thought i'd speak to are becoming a part of my world, but others... let's just say regardless of the amount of professionalism you show they don't give it back. oh well.

thank God i know my worth, cause in this world, it can be easy to forget!

one connection at a time

2008-03-11T00:06:00.003-04:00

sistah confession, my online book club and radio show, has afforded me so many opportunities to connect with women in the literary community. i had an interview today with trice hickman of unexpected interruptions, and let me tell you she was great. her spirit is so warm. talking to her inspired me to continue on with my passion. not that i had thoughts of giving up, but it is nice to meet someone who encourages you to keep on.

the radio personality of tifany jones is doing better than i expected. i am still in awe when i see members of the grits or rawsistaz listening in on the show. i can't even put into words how great that feels.

the author side of tifany jones is still in the edit phase. my #1 pick for an editor may be too busy to take on my workload right now, and i totally understand that. after all, she is an author herself. so i know her schedule must be tight right now.

so i guess i will just take this time to do what i can like making sure my characters are well developed and the storyline flows seamlessly. i want this to be a well written piece, so i refuse to fall into the trap of just putting anything together just to get it out there. anything we do requires patience and when patience has its perfect work we will be complete and entire lacking and wanting nothing.

i believe in my work, therefore so will others regardless of the time frame it takes to make it available.

to be continued...

expect the worse

2008-03-03T09:05:00.003-05:00

i had an interview planned with candice dow on my radio show sistah confessions, but she never showed up. she emailed her reason this morning, but i would be lying if i said i wasn't a bit disappointed.

i guess these things happen. i can't control the unexpected interruptions of life, but...

special thanks to tanisha webb, president of kc girlfirends book club, for stepping in and making the show wonderful. she gave all the listeners valuable information on running a successful book club. thanks again girl! take a listen.

anyway, i am still working on my piece to submit for this anthology. i think i am close to completion. may even submit it this week.

do i have any advice for the writer, talk show host, or book club leader in you, YES. expect the unexpected, because sometimes things happen that are not in our control.

be blessed,
tifany jones

coming up short

2008-02-29T10:17:00.003-05:00

i have been working on three projects at one time. do i sense burn out? i hope not. writing is my passion. however, i am finding it increasingly difficult to stay focused. maybe my impending cross country move has something to do with it.

either way, when i am working on my short story for this contest, i am thinking about the radio show. when i get cracking on my edits to my work of fiction, i am thinking of my non-fiction piece. "to tweak or not to tweak?" that, my friend, is the question.

i think it's safe to say i need more structure. sometimes i wish i had a writing partner to be accountable to.

any suggestions?

signed,
all over the place

When Mama Won't Do

2008-02-28T08:01:00.000-05:00

February Review:

What price are you willing to pay to be free? For Grace Jefferson, the main character in Kim McLarin’s Jump at the Sun, the hefty price tag may be worth it. As a wife and mother of two, Grace is destined to relive the pasts of her mother and grandmother. The question for her is which one. As both women’s lives are revealed through brilliantly written flashbacks and character dialogue, the reader learns why one selflessly sacrificed everything for her children and why the other didn’t. The two women’s actions ultimately lead Grace to a decision that will not only affect her, but also her family lineage.

This book touched me in a personal way because I have seen through my own family how one choice can radically change an entire generation. I was completely intrigued by the social issues in the story. Each one, from slavery to economic status, played an intricate part in the personal development, or lack thereof, for each character in the book. My grandmother always said, “We all are who we are for a reason.” Kim McLarin demonstrates the realness of that statement.

Although some may be instantly drawn to the books major themes of the harsh realities of motherhood, family life, or social structure, I walked away pondering how one decision can influence future generations.

Jump at the Sun shows the power of one’s choice. How it can build or destroy and regardless of what we think, it is never just about us.

SC Rating~5 Sistah Worthy

Reviewed by Tifany Jones

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sunday's best

2008-02-25T10:33:00.003-05:00

it snowed this weekend, again, but i did not let the freezing cold damper my mood. i had a great time with my family. especially, on sunday when my honey was off. we watched an old throw back, The Sixth Sense, inspired by Stefanie Worth, and had a banging dinner. of course i cooked. baked potato, broiled teriyaki shrimp and talapia, and macaroni and cheese. go head chef TJ!

Stefanie is the author of Where Souls Collide. We had a great interview on Sistah Confessions Radio Show. Check it out if you missed it.

the Lord has been so good to me. i can't even imagine the recap of 2008 in 2009!

on the writing front: i have been working, working, working. i am even working on a submission for an anthology! will keep you posted on that.

a lot is required from a writer, but what i took away from Stefanie is to continue to press on. it's not over unless YOU say it's over. a good book is timeless. if yours has been put on the backburner now is the time to revive it. look at it with fresh eyes, study the industry, and find your place in this world. sure, it might not happen when we want it to, but i can say this... it won't happen at all if you don't work on it.

this scripture was on my heart this morning~Habakkuk 2:2
[ Full of Self, but Soul-Empty ] And then God answered: "Write this. Write what you see. Write it out in big block letters so that it can be read on the run. This vision-message is a witness pointing to what's coming. It aches for the coming—it can hardly wait! And it doesn't lie. If it seems slow in coming, wait. It's on its way. It will come right on time. The Message Bible

Since You Went Away from Me-Excerpt

2008-02-22T12:40:00.003-05:00

hey guys. i know it has been a minute since i last blogged, but life happens. i'm still in the lab perfecting my craft. editing is no fun, but i push at it anyway, because i have a gift i want to share with others.

i just released an excerpt of my debut novel Since You Went Away from Me (butterflies currently dancing in my stomach). please check it out, and let me know what you think. i'd love to hear from you.

READ IT NOW!!

i did it!

2008-02-11T13:52:00.000-05:00

i had my first live show yesterday and it went well. there were some minor issues, but nothing that preventing me from going forward. i will do another test show later this week to work all the problems out before guests are featured on the show. professionalism is a must! afterall, i am tifany jones!

i even had a person stay along and chat with me while on the air. i thought that was sweet considering he knew nothing about me. he said i was a natural. i'll take it :)

note to self...one person at a time.

here is the feed if you missed it.

tgif

2008-02-08T21:59:00.000-05:00

another week has ended. i was very productive. there are so many things in the works with tifany jones, sistah confessions, and zoe lifestyle services, my head is spinning just thinking about it.

still, i look forward to all these things because they are the desires of my heart manifesting right in front of my eyes. no one ever said living your dream was easy, but i am glad i stepped out there to make it happen.

sistah confessions goes LIVE on blog talk radio february 10 (sunday) @ 6PM/EST. be sure to tune in.

i'm going back to college

2008-02-07T23:13:00.000-05:00

i have been corresponding with a lovely girl from a university in ohio. she is interested in having me share some information with her and her book club. i cannot wait to talk with her tomorrow. god is really doing some awesome things in my life.

an author's life

2008-02-06T12:47:00.000-05:00

being an author is a multi-faceted venture. whether published or self- published, there are many hats involved in being in this industry. you are the writer, editor, promoter, publicist, graphic designer...there are just too many to name.

well, i've created a way to help ease your load. let me introduce you to Zoe Lifestyle Services. Zoe is exclusively for authors. it is a web design company that gives all writers/authors the professional presence they need on the net. check it out for yourself!

refreshed...kinda

2008-02-05T10:02:00.000-05:00

i am getting back into the swing of things. my edits are coming along great. the storyline of a few characters will change a little bit, but whatever it takes to make it a great read.

my friend reminded me that at least i am not starting from scratch. i have the material. i just need to trim the fat for better results. i love the way it is turning out.

BTW sistah confessions has 2 news members. our first show is feb 10 @ 6PM/EST. the intro recorded by my girl liz is on point. cant't wait to share!

until then keep writing...

sleep deprivation and internet do mix

2008-02-03T04:57:00.000-05:00

for those who don't know, february and march are going to be bonkers for Sistah Confessions. i have confirmed 5 special guests. all literary power houses in the game.

stay tuned next week when i reveal the names. also, don't forget to check out my official Myspace page.

it's 4am. do you know where your children are?

2008-02-03T04:39:00.000-05:00

yes that is right! i have not slept as of 7am saturday morning. i wonder if my hubby will be upset (sarcasim? you decide. i'm too tired).

today was a very stressful day. i just wanted to make myself a bird so i could fly far far away (forest gump). my daughter, the youngest, is very attached to me. let's just say i can't take two steps without her taking four. while i love the way she loves me, sometimes i struggle to find time for myself.

i have been trying to work on edits since friday, and haven't had much success. why? because apparently my time belongs to everyone else but me. i am not going to even lie and say that i didn't lose it a few times today. why don't they make houses with secret rooms for mothers to hide in? a panic room would be a nice additions.

i could finish up by listing 3 ways to have ME time, but for some reason i don't think it would help.

1. stay up at ungodly hours while everyone else is sleep

2. eat two bowls of cereal, or anything else, you didnt need just because it was there

3. don't fall asleep until hubby wakes up. then he can take care of the kids.

oh, who am i foolin'. i guess i better get to bed. i only have 3-4 hours of sleep left before the saga continues.

what the edit is this!

2008-02-01T15:59:00.000-05:00

i just got back my edit from the wonderful company Gentle Pen, and i have to say, i HIGHLY recommend every author have their work professionally edited. writing a book is about more than writing. just through my sample edit i learned what the editors want to see, the importance of knowing popular trends, and i am just not that good with writing mechanics. the story is all in my head. i can see it clearly, but getting it through on paper is another story (no pun intended).

being an excellent writer in college (A's on all my term papers high 5 for me) doesn't qualify you to write a structurally sound book. you need help. thats where having a good editor is key. then after learning the basics, you can write another book without your editor pulling all of her hair out (sorry girl).

i'd like to thank Persia Walker for all her assitance (hope you got a few strands left. if not, i can hook you up at the beauty supply store:)

reach out and touch somebody's hand

2008-01-31T22:02:00.001-05:00

my pastor always says, "nothing beats a failure but to try." so i took a major step today and contacted a few well known authors to see if they would be interested in speaking to me. the worst they can say is NO, but that is one world all writers hear.

just ask kimbrela roby. she is the author of many books. the one i read recently was Changing Faces. I believe she received over 40 rejection letters before she decided to self-publish. now she is one of the most recognized names in AA fiction.

the point of the story is you cannot give up on your dream. some will say no, but you keep moving until the right one says yes.

i believe in my work enough to know that others will too. im so psyched!!!

my neck and my back...

2008-01-31T18:42:00.000-05:00

after fooling around on this computer all day, i came to the realization that i am going a bit overboard. i am so anxious for things to happen that i am losing focus of the more important things in life like my family. i can't allow this thing to consume my entire life. then what life would i have? i know i mentioned the need to slow down, but i need to remind myself again...SLOW DOWN.

For the vision is yet for an appointed time;
But at the end it will speak, and it will not lie.
Though it tarries, wait for it;
Because it will surely come,
It will not tarry. Habakkuk 2:3

sister showcase

2008-01-30T18:52:00.000-05:00

my sister showcase page where i feature the hottest female authors in the game is finally complete. i think it turned out beautifully!!!

If you or someone you know wants to be featured CONTACT ME!

fear of rejection

2008-01-30T11:17:00.001-05:00

while sitting here reading my bible, thoughts of rejection hit me like a crashing wave. questions soon followed. "what if no one likes my work?" or "what if i did all this work in vain?" the truth is God has not given me a spirit of fear. i have to be confident knowing that whatever i put my hands to do will prosper. being an author is lonely work. sometimes crazy thoughts will come. you just have to know your labor of love is not in vain. keep pressing forward. (WARNING: some crazy thoughts may be due to sleep deprivation ;)

busy, busy, busy

2008-01-30T01:41:00.000-05:00

it is 10 minutes to 1 a.m. i have been at it all day, but i finally finished my other blog Sistah Confessions. aside from that i have been working on networking and branding. ideas keep hitting me like whoa!!

so tired now, but have one more task before i go to sleep. we'll see how it pays off.

the gentle pen

2008-01-28T09:03:00.000-05:00

i stumbled across a youtube video by persia walker on self publishing. it was very informative and i recommend anyone desiring to sp to at least watch.

she also has an editorial service www.gentlepen.com

OMG!!!

2008-01-26T20:45:00.000-05:00

i did a search for my name and...drum roll please...i am offically searchable on goggle and yahoo! search engines. i think this is wonderful. first the internet, then the world. i am so psyched and cant wait to see the rest of what God has in store for tifany jones.

i've missed you

2008-01-26T00:19:00.000-05:00

i tried taking a break from the computer, but it kept calling me... this is what i do, so it is hard to just stop cold turkey. i felt like i was going through internet withdrawal.

being online is not what i do but who i am. i live online. so i decided to return to what i love.

the short break did give me a chance to regroup and reorganize my thoughts. now i am back to work.

a midnight's summer dream

2008-01-22T14:48:00.001-05:00

while taking a quick nap, a bunch of ideas ran through my mind. seems like all i can think about is work and what it will take to get my ideas out there to the public. i jumped up to write my thoughts down then headed to the computer. while searching for a term, i stopped. "what am i doing," i asked myself. it is a great thing to have a vision, desire, and passion. but i cannot allow it to turn into an unhealthy obsession. so breathe. relax. the world wont end if you rest from your giftings and callings every so often.

one author at a time

2008-01-20T20:50:00.000-05:00

i got my first author to agree to be on my website. this is so big to me. her name is d.l. sparks. check her out www.dlsparks.com.

99 problems...

2008-01-18T21:37:00.001-05:00

i encountered some problems with my website today. seems it did not want to load. of course the tech support was closed. thank God it worked itself out. so i said all that to say this, make sure you check your site periodically throughout the day. being on the web is a part of your livelihood. you must be accessible at all times.

Checking this out

2008-01-17T10:53:00.001-05:00

I'm trying to test this mobile feature. If it works, it will save me so much time.

a piece of cyberspace

2008-01-16T15:17:00.001-05:00

i did a goggle search and my blog came up. i've been made.

first the internet. next the world. i'm lovin' it!

an awful lot of...

2008-01-15T23:20:00.000-05:00

WORK!! things dont stop after a book is written. honestly, i think that is the easy part. the hard part is promoting and marketing. most publisher dont want to touch a new author with a 10 foot pole if they havent already been proven saleable. you have to bring your a-game or you will be tossed like last month’s essence magazine.

i dont want my hard work to end up in a drawer collecting dust or worse...as a prop under a table leg.

there is always something to do. i guess i better get cracking.

it's official

2008-01-14T23:08:00.000-05:00

after a day of staring at this computer screen, barely eating with minimal breaks to the powder room i have finally finished my website. i would throw a party, but at this hour it would be more like an after party. oh well, maybe next time.

p.s. a black woman can do anything when she sets her mind to it.

God is love,
tifany jones

another one bites the dust

2008-01-14T01:08:00.000-05:00

well, it is 12:17am and my work day just ended. i accomplished so much today. my site is coming along beautifully and i have to thank my wonderful husband for taking the kids outside while i stayed glued to this monitor. i think my hands are starting to hurt...

always true...

2008-01-13T11:39:00.000-05:00

i found this site One True Media and thought it would be good as a way to promote your work. check out the montage i created and leave a comment.

Since You Went Away from Me

welcome to my blog

2008-01-13T09:42:00.000-05:00