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http://www.urbanchristianfictiontoday.com/2009/03/black-book-clubs-rock-awards.html
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i just finished reading an article about the mother who recently gave birth to 8 children. all this AFTER already having six children at home. is anyone else scratching their head? the thing that puzzles me is now her home is going into foreclosure, but in the midst of it she was able to secure a publicist. they later dropped her, but still... are her priorities in order?
chris brown... what was he thinking? i won't say much because i am still waiting for all the details, but does anyone find it a coincidence that he watched his mother get abused and he ended up becoming what he hated. generational curses... lord please give us the wisdom on how to help our children!!
"If you like it then you shoulda put a ring on it. Don't be mad once you see that he want it..."
We've all heard the Ring On It song by Beyonce. It has an annoying but catchy hook, and an eye popping video, but just like sex the effect will soon fade away. Pretty soon this song will fall into the category of just another female anthem that no one really cares for anymore. Is that how you want to be remembered?
Let’s face it sex is good. God created it as a way for man and woman to become one. We are supposed to enjoy it, but as husband and wife! The reality is sex is not an all day event like it is depicted in movies and magazines. Cosmo may have a juicy article on 101 Ways To Please Your Man In Bed, but what happens after you get up? What do you do about the lifetime soul tie you created with this man by allowing him to give you only minutes of pleasure? Or the virginity you can never get back like that same man who discarded you after you gave him some? Newsflash, you are worth so much more than a fleeting orgasm (if you’ve ever had one)!
Look at sex from a different perspective, one not tainted with millions of TV ads or sexually explicit song lyrics and videos,and you will see sex for what it is; a temporary enjoyment that can cause a lifetime of pain.
We’ve all done things we are not proud of, but God’s mercies renew every morning. God loves you. He’s interested in your wellbeing, your mind, and what troubles you at night. Simply put He cares because you are like a precious jewel to Him. He will not take advantage of you or manipulate you into doing something that will hurt you. He said you are precious in His sight, and it isn’t based on how much skin you show or how well you can work it.
See yourself with 20/20 vision today and learn a little about who you really are here. I agree with Beyonce, Single Ladies make him put a ring on it, but BEFORE not after you’ve given yourself away.
5 Reasons Why You Are Worth The Wait
1. You’re worth the perfect will of God for your life. God never intended for us to treat sex like a test drive before we get the wedding ring. His will for us to remain virgins until the day we’ve become married to the one person we love. It may seem like a fairytale, especially now in a world so consumed with lustful and selfish desires, but the principal works. It is designed to give you a hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11).
Look at sex from a different perspective, one not tainted with millions of TV ads or sexually explicit song lyrics and videos,and you will see sex for what it is; a temporary enjoyment that can cause a lifetime of pain.
We’ve all done things we are not proud of, but God’s mercies renew every morning. God loves you. He’s interested in your wellbeing, your mind, and what troubles you at night. Simply put He cares because you are like a precious jewel to Him. He will not take advantage of you or manipulate you into doing something that will hurt you. He said you are precious in His sight, and it isn’t based on how much skin you show or how well you can work it.
See yourself with 20/20 vision today and learn a little about who you really are here. I agree with Beyonce, Single Ladies make him put a ring on it, but BEFORE not after you’ve given yourself away.
5 Reasons Why You Are Worth The Wait
1. You’re worth the perfect will of God for your life. God never intended for us to treat sex like a test drive before we get the wedding ring. His will for us to remain virgins until the day we’ve become married to the one person we love. It may seem like a fairytale, especially now in a world so consumed with lustful and selfish desires, but the principal works. It is designed to give you a hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11).
2. You’re worth happiness. Premarital sex comes with many strings attached like depression, regret, anger, and even suicide. Don’t put yourself in a position you are not mentally prepared to handle. Your worth is not determined by the number of men you sleep with, but from knowing who you are (Proverbs 3:13).
3. You’re worth being disease free. Sex is a powerful force. It can create life, but if not taken seriously it can destroy yours. HIV/AIDS is real and the leading cause of death for black women between the ages of 18-34. If someone gave you a box and said, “Inside is an incurable disease that will rob your future and strip you of all dignity by isolating you from society,” would you open it? Consider that next time you are approached to “have a good time” (Psalm 103:2-4)
4. You’re worth being a wife, not a baby mama. However cruel, society inappropriately judges women who have had illegitimate children. They regard them as second class citizens, loose, and without morals. Though this is far from the truth, especially since #1 she did not make that baby alone and #2, everyone falls into sin, just some are seen more than others, why put yourself in this position? Having a child is a very important part of life. Share it with the man you’ve committed yourself to in marriage. Skip the drama and just wait (Psalm 31:10).
5. You’re worth true love. Don’t make the mistake and confuse love with lust. Lust is temporary but love is eternal. Love is also longsuffering, does not envy, love does not parade itself… read more. (1 Corinthians 13:4-13)
What is your idea of love? Are you worth the wait? Share your thoughts with us!
This information was given out during our Virtuous Women meeting on Monday. Take a look and blog your days with me.
February is considered the month of love, but instead of being consumed with what someone else will do for you, do something for someone else. Review the list. Unless otherwise stated, do these things on a daily basis for one month. Before you begin this list make sure you have a journal. Use it to jot down your progress. We will share our progress at our next meeting.
1. Cover a child in prayer every day. We all know a child who is need of our effectual prayers. Sincerely seek God for the wellbeing and salvation of this child.
2. Early morning prayer. What time do you normally get up? Wake up earlier, like 5am, and fellowship with God. Rise up early at least once a week. Meditate on the Word, take a bath while listening to your favorite inspirational music, ect. Don’t just wake up early and stay in the bed. Get up!
3. Make a purposeful attempt to walk in two fruits of the Spirit daily. Read Gal 5:22-23. Don’t be easily moved. Stick to it and watch how your situations will change.
4. Dedicate a weekend to have God like activities. Instead of going out to the movies or watching secular TV, devote your time to things centered around God. Read a good Christian Fiction book, read your bible, pray, have a family conversation centered around God, ect. There is plenty to do.
5. Help clean someone’s house or room. You know that girlfriend you talk about cause her housekeeping skills aren’t that great. Help her!
6. Make your favorite dish and share it with someone. It does not have to be someone you know. Use it as a way to introduce yourself to a neighbor or to get to know your co-workers better. If you can’t cook buy your favorite meal and share it!
7. Send an encouraging email to someone. Sometimes our days can be filled with so much negativity. Use the Word of God to bring light to someone’s situation. Sidebar: Don’t send those spam messages that end with, “If you don’t send this to 20 people you will not be blessed.” If you like what the message says just delete that part off.
8. Find a total stranger and tell them how much God loves them. It is amazing how we strike up conversations with strangers on a daily basis. Use this as an opportunity to share the love of God.
9. Win at least one person to Christ. We all know someone that needs Jesus. Instead of saying it as we shake out head at the sin in their life, go to them and tell them about salvation. Share your testimony. Everyone is looking for something to fill that void. Tell them the one person is able to do it, Jesus!
10. Fast at least once a week. It’s funny how when we are overwhelmed with the issues of life we use food as our comforter. Instead, decide to skip a meal or not eat sweets. Whatever your vice is, eliminate it and use that time to pray and read the Word. Only God can give you the answers you need.
11. Find something you no longer need/want and give it to someone. Whatever it is make sure it is gently used. You wouldn’t want to receive trash so don’t give it.
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